While there is no blessing to recite while lighting the memorial candle, it is appropriate to think about the memory of the specific person you are grieving, or of any loved ones who have died, as you light the candle. Before lighting the candle, take a few moments to make the space where the candle will sit for the next 25 hours feel holy.

First, make sure the candle is placed on a surface that is safe and where the flame will not affect any surrounding furniture or fabrics. Then, add a photograph of anyone you are remembering next to the candle, or any objects that remind you of the person. These could be trinkets they owned, family heirlooms, favorite books, items from nature, or even a piece of clothing. Finally, if you have been making a memory jar, add that to this holy space. 
 


Booklet Section: Remembrance, Candlelighting